http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ — How To Get Your Ex Back If They're Dating Somebody Else Already
So, I should first say that this video is mainly for those who broke up within the past year or so. The same things may apply if your breakup happened long ago, but that's a topic I'll cover in another video.
In most cases, the new guy or girl your ex is now dating is a "rebound". A "rebound" relationship is essentially just what the name suggests: a 'quick fix' for your ex to get through the sadness and loneliness that they are experiencing in the wake of your breakup.
Keep in mind, by the way, that breaking up with someone can actually be even more difficult and gut-wrenching than being broken up with. That means that even though your ex may have been the one to initiate the breakup, it's highly likely that they are just as heartbroken as you are right now.
So, what's the easiest way to get through the difficult post-breakup emotions and sadness? Occupy your time and keep yourself busy by finding someone new.
In all likelihood, if your ex has 'replaced' you with someone new quickly after breaking up with you, then this person is probably just a "rebound" to help them get over the breakup blues.
And believe it or not, this rebound relationship can often be good news for you if you want to get back together with your ex.
I know what you're thinking right now…. you're asking yourself, "how the hell can my ex replacing me with some loser help me get them back?"
Well, the answer is actually fairly simple. First of all, assuming that this new person that your ex is dating is just a rebound relationship — some guy or girl that your ex met in a nightclub and hit it off with — then it's nothing serious. They're probably not doing candlelit dinners at fancy Italian restaurants… they're just hanging out now and then, relying on the physical side of their relationship to maintain the bond.
While it may be painful to hear that your ex is just seeing this new guy / girl for the sex, that's actually a good thing for you. It means that they probably don't have much in common, and they certainly don't have the same kind of bond that you and your ex had.
Most rebound relationships last 3-5 weeks. While that's certainly not a hard and fast rule, it's true for most scenarios. That means that it's extremely likely your ex's rebound relationship will be over soon. Once the rebound ends, your ex is going to have to face the reality of their situation… they're single, lonely, and they no longer have anyone to keep their mind off of you!
While your ex has been delaying this inevitable surge of heartache and loneliness, you've already been dealing with those emotions. Your ex's rebound just delayed this, and now that the rebound is over, these emotions will surface again.
Now that your ex's rebound relationship is over, it's time to pounce. Because your ex is depressed and lonely — and because they just spent a few weeks dating someone who wasn't nearly as compatible as you were — you're probably going to start looking like a very good option.
So, with your ex in a fragile state and looking for a quick fix to heal their heartache, you can pounce on the situation by re-establishing communication with your ex. Don't mention their rebound relationship, and don't tell them that you want to get back together.
Instead, simply start talking with them again — in a casual, friendly, and upbeat way. The goal is just to remind your ex that you're still around, that you're still a great person with whom they once shared a deep romantic connection, and that getting back together with you is an easy and fast way to make the emotional pain go away.
In a sense, then, you're using your ex's rebound relationship to make yourself look good.. and you're subtly reminding your ex that love isn't an easy thing to find.
So, if you see your ex with someone new, don't panic… celebrate! Because, if you play your cards right, their rebound relationship might just help you win them back.
And finally, if you're serious about winning back your ex.. if this is the person that you want to have by your side in 20 or 30 or 50 years, then you should consider investing in my Ex Factor Guide program. It's a step-by-step system that will teach you all the ins and outs, covering every "what if" scenario…. and I promise it's totally affordable, too. Grab your copy at my website, www.BreakupBrad.com.
*** More from Brad Browning: ***
Ex Factor Guide: http://www.exfactorguide.com
Brad Browning: http://www.bradbrowning.com
Love Learnings: http://www.lovelearnings.com